How to ask a psychic your question

How to ask a psychic your question

It may seem intuitive that you just ask your question, but the more focused and detailed your question is when you ask it, the better the answer the psychic gives you will be.

For example, if you want to know about your relationship, a vague question would be: “Will I have a happy relationship with Jim/Jane?”

What’s wrong with my question?

That looks like a specific question, right? But for a psychic to get a good idea of who you are and what kind of relationship you have and want to have with Jim/Jane, you need to share more information.

My follow-up questions to a vague question like that one would include:

1. What kind of relationship do you currently have with Jim/Jane?
2. How long have you known them?
3. Have you met in person (you would be surprised how many times I get questions like this and the people involved have never laid eyes on one another without a screen between them)?
4. What kind of long-term relationship do you want to have with Jim/Jane.

I may ask other questions if I’m working with a paying client, but to be blunt, when you’re getting a free reading, I’m unlikely to spend the time necessary to flesh out your question if you didn’t spend the time to think it through and share it with me in the first place.

Now, you may be thinking, “Shari, if I tell you all that, how do I know you’re psychic?”

You don’t, honestly, but if you’re keeping your question vague to “test” my gift, you’re not going to like the outcome. I’m an empath and clairsentient. That means I’m connected to emotions--past, present, and future. I will be reading your “test” and not just your question. I need the information I mentioned above in order to be certain I’m connecting to the right person in your life. There have been many times when a client comes to me with questions about one relationship while their energy is actually focused on a different one.

And that’s another point I need clients to understand. If you ask about one thing, but something else is more primary in your mind and energy, I’m going to pick up on the more primary one. Come to me with a question that is clearly part of your primary concerns or you’re likely to get a muddy answer.

What does a clear question look like?

Let’s look back at the original question: Will I have a happy relationship with Jim/Jane?

A much more specific and better to read with question would be: Jim and I have been friends since we were kids. We tried dating a couple of times, but always seemed to fall back into a friendship rather than a romantic relationship. I love Jim and I want to be with him. If we try again, can we find happiness as a romantic couple?

Do you see the difference in the questions? You’re not “giving me information” so I can “fool you with my answers.” Instead, you’ve given me enough details for me to focus in on the question you truly want me to answer. I don’t have to guess that you’re interested in a romantic relationship, which I would be forced to do because as an empath, I would be picking up on the friendship, as well as romantic feelings.

I hope this has been helpful and that you take it in the spirit with which it was written. I want to be able to answer your questions the best way I can and give you the answers that will help you find the path to your dreams and desires. I can’t do that unless I have the necessary information, resulting in vague and muddy answers to your questions.